Being rejected is one of the hardest things that can happen to someone, and this is especially true if you loved that person that rejected you.
Everyone will end up being rejected at some point in time but no matter how many times someone gets rejected, it still hurts. Sometimes when you get rejected, you are completely blown away by it. You might think that you and your date had amazing times together and then out of nowhere, he rejects you.
Knowing He Doesn’t Love You
The hardest part of rejection is that you have to stop making excuses for the person that is hurting you. You have to stop thinking that he loves you because he doesn’t.
No matter how much fun you had together and how much you think he is the right person for you, that was all just on your end and he didn’t or doesn’t feel the same.
If someone chooses not to love you, it doesn’t matter how good the relationship looks or feels, he is not going to love you. You have to accept that he doesn’t want you and even when your brain tries to tell you how perfect things are, you have to tell your brain to get over it.
Cut Him Out
Stop allowing him to be in your life. Cut him out of your life even when it is hard. When you love someone, it hurts to get rid of them but if you want to be happy and you want to be healthy, you need to get him out of your life.
You need to block his phone number and get him off of your social media. You need to do your life without him.
Chances are he will not like that you are getting him out of your life, but you need to be strong, and you need to look at your future and your heart.
At some point in your life, you might be able to be friends with this person, but right now, the love that you feel for him is too much and you need to move on since he no longer loves you.
Live Without Him
You can live your life without a man. You don’t need someone in your life, especially while you are healing.
If you were really in love with that guy, then the relationship must have felt strong. Falling in love can be easy and falling in love is fast but falling out of love can take a long time. Take the time that you need but do it on your own. Do not depend on another guy to take his place.
Spend time with people that love you and do things that you used to love to do. Find hobbies that are fun and learn to laugh, a lot.
Go out with your family and friends and people that love you like you love them. No matter how much you miss your relationship, do things that are about you and not about how much you loved him.
Find a Rebound
When you have given yourself time to heal, you can find someone new. Chances are there will be people that already have crossed your mind.
Once you feel better, go for a rebound. You don’t have to force yourself to move on, but you can go out and have fun.
Even if you are confident, you are taking a chance of getting dumped again but don’t let that hold you back. Keep your self-esteem strong and remember that you are worth it.
Better Off Alone
No matter what you think or how alone you feel, know that you are better off alone than with someone that doesn’t love you.
Your mind made you think that what you had was love but that doesn’t mean that it was true love. Get over your feelings of your breakup and accept the fact that he didn’t love you.
It is better to have someone in your life that is new or to not have someone in your life at all than to be with someone that doesn’t love you the way that you deserve to be loved.