Do you want to make your boyfriend miss you like crazy? If you said yes, you aren’t alone because everyone wants to have a chance to be missed by a guy. This can be a guy that you have a crush on or someone that you have been with before and you want to have them back or maybe you even want your new guy to miss you.
There is a line between being loving and kind and charming and playing games with someone. You have to figure out what side of the line that you are on and if you find that you are doing things to get someone to miss you that you would hate to be done to you, this can be a red flag for yourself. Do not play tricks if you want to be in a good relationship.
Just like you don’t want someone else playing games with you or hurting your feelings, you need to make sure that you aren’t doing it either. No one is worth you acting ugly for.
There is nothing wrong with being the best that you can be and having a goal to make someone miss you or wish that they were back with you. No matter if you end up with this person or not, here are some ways you can be the best you can be.
Don’t Always Be There
Do not always be there when your crush or someone you like messages you or needs you. Learn to be busy and if you aren’t, pretend to be. Spend your energy doing things that you love to do and don’t give up your life for him all the time.
You don’t want people to think that you are always there for them and if they message you, take time before you answer them. Don’t let them take advantage of you.
It is fine for your crush to wonder what you are doing. He doesn’t have to always know where you are or who you are with.
But the best way for you to do this is to stay busy in your life. Find hobbies that you love to do and work on being the best that you can be. Be busy in your life with things that make you happy.
Focus your life on doing things that allow you to have fun.
Don’t Message First
You shouldn’t always be the one to message him first. Are you always the one sending the first message? If so, take time off from doing this and make him have to reach out to you. If he doesn’t, don’t be upset, he might just be used to you making the first move.
If you stop contacting him for a while it might take him a bit to realize that you have done this. If he is shy or backward, it might take him longer to message you but if he likes you, he will message you.
Look and Be Your Best
Always go out looking your best. We like to see things and we are turned on by people that look good. You don’t have to always have all your makeup on and your hair perfect and you can be natural, just do not be dirty or gross.
Learn to flirt a little and let him see you at your best. Appearance will send him a message and you want it to be a good message.
Tell Him About Your Good Day
Go out and have fun and then tell him about it when he talks to you. Talk about what you do and where you went and how much fun you had. Let him wish he were around you.
On top of having fun, you are showing him that you have happiness and that you enjoy going out and doing things. You don’t have to always volunteer what you did that day but if he asks you, don’t hold back.
Let Your Body Talk
Be seductive in your body. This doesn’t mean to have sex with him but always communicate with your being. Subconsciously send out messages that you are interested.
Talk with your body language and always make eye contact. Look at him and look at his lips. Let him see you checking him out.
Mirroring
Mirroring means that you follow someone else’s body language. If he puts his hands on the table, you do it too.
Doing this can help him to know that you are wanting to be close to him. This can look funny if you copy him too much so always used moderation.
Mirroring is not just body language but if he gets excited when he talks, you do it too and smile a lot. Let him see that you like what he is doing and reciprocate it.
Most guys will take the lead when they are with you and if he does, mirror him.
Get Him to Talk
Do not tell your crush everything about you on the first date but tell him interesting things about you. Be a little personal and see if you can get him to open up to you some. Let him be intimate about the details and you do it too.
Don to share things that would cause him to run away and always protect yourself, just share small details that are intimate.
Tell Him to Spend Time with Others
Nothing is worse than someone that is overly clingy in a relationship. Learn to spend time with your friends and others and expect him to do the same.
Do not be with someone that you expect to be with you all the time and vice versa. You need to tell him that he needs to go out with his friends and have fun.
When you spend time apart, the time you spend together will be better. This also gives you a chance to miss one another and to realize how much you like each other.
If you are in a relationship, this is the time where you have to be careful not to be clingy. Figure out how much alone time you both need and make sure you both get it.
Cute Messages
When you are flirting with someone, you can send a hello or goodnight text to be a little flirty. Make sure that you don’t go overboard and that you are just being cute.
Once you are in a relationship, you can get more romantic but just let them know you are thinking about them.
If you are with your crush, send him flirty messages and have him thinking about you all day long.
Be There
Before a guy can know if he likes you or not, he has to know that you are safe and that you are there for him. Make sure that you build a foundation and that you show him that you are there for him.
If he has something going on that is a crisis for him, make sure that you go to him and help him with whatever is going on.
You need to show him that he doesn’t always have to have his guard up and he can trust you.
Show Interest
Show interest in things that he is interested in. If he loves sports, learn to love sports, and learn to be able to have a conversation about his favorite game. If this interest isn’t yours, learn to make it part of your passion.
Be receptive of what he likes and let him be the same for you. When you show someone that you are interested in what they are interested in, it shows that you like the same things and that you have something in common.
Small Things
Do little things for him such as bring him a coffee to work or put a cute note in his lunchbox. Doing these things will make him see that you are interested and will have him thinking about you.
Get to know him and when you go out to eat, pay attention to what he orders and then next time you can surprise him with his favorite meal.
Benefit of the Doubt
Avoid trying to send angry texts when your guy doesn’t respond to you right away. This can turn him off and cause him to see the worse in you. Learn to wait and do not be overly pushy. Be patient with him because he might be busy.
If he cancels a date, he might have something that he has to do but if you see this as being a pattern, this can be something that you need to work through or move on. Sometimes breaking a date is unavoidable though and you need to be patient and give him the benefit of the doubt.
Ego
A guy likes it when they are treated nice and when they are complimented. Always boost his ego and let him know how much of an impression he makes on you. Be positive with him.
If he tells you a joke, laugh at it and always listen to what he likes and what makes him happy. Be proud of him and let him see that you are attracted to him. Boost his confidence every time you can.
Don’t Be Hard to Get
One of the things about being hard to get is that it can work, or it can backfire. It depends on the guy as to how he is going to act.
If a guy likes you, he will not want you to play games with him. Do not be confused of he likes you or not and do not answer him right away if he texts you. This is not playing hard to get but not being overly zealous. Do not obsess over him and let him desire you more by making him make the first move.
Enjoy Life
You must learn to enjoy your life alone before you can enjoy being with someone. Find something that you love to do and find hobbies. Do things by yourself and enjoy having fun with you and you are alone.
Take care of yourself and focus on what you need. Be attractive to others and be someone that is fun to be around and exciting. Be positive and make sure that you are finding your own happiness in life.
Make sure that you let him see how good you are and let him see that you are happy and confident in your life. Inspire him to commit to you by being the best that you can be.
If he seems like he is losing interest in you, take time to pull away and let him see what he is going to miss.
How to Make Him Miss You
- Don’t always be there when he messages you.
- Don’t always message him first.
- Look and act your best.
- Have a fun day and tell him.
- Use body language.
- Use mirroring.
- Get him to open up to you.
- Get him to desire to spend time with you.
- Send him cute messages.
- Be there when he has a need.
- Be interested in what he is interested in.
- Do small things for him.
- Don’t always jump to conclusions.
- Boost his ego.
- Stop being hard to get.
- Love your life.